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Brainwave Entrainment Techniques For Meditation

September 28, 2012 — Leave a comment

If you are like most people, then you’ve probably experience how difficult it can be at times to get your mind to do what you want. While your mind is wonderful at responding to objective tasks such as raising your arm, a lot of people feel like it is very hard to get their mind to relax or go to sleep. Most people solve this problem by meditation. Overtime, meditation can help train the mind the respond better to the needs of the body. A lesser known solution to your problems is called brainwave entrainment. So, what is brainwave entrainment?

Brainwave Entrainment – What It Is, And What It Can Do For You

Brainwave entrainment is a way of synchronizing the brainwaves with external stimuli. An external stimulus is anything that causes your brainwaves to react. In most cases, brainwave entrainment is induced through aural stimuli. Aural stimuli are those stimuli that can be heard. There are a lot of soundtracks available specifically for brainwave entrainment.

A lot of people enjoy brainwave entrainment because it helps them better at meditating. Brainwave entrainment can teach you a lot of things, such as how to focus better. As you know, one of the main goals of meditation is being able to focus on one thing at a time. If you are having trouble with that concept, brainwave entrainment can help make you more successful at it. The reason that brainwave entrainment is able to help you focus better is because it ability to interact and synchronizewith your brainwaves. Search for a description at Wikipedia on how it works.

I’ve been a fan of meditation music ever since I stumbled upon it years ago to aid my work in the neurolinguistics department at the University of Denver

People also use brainwave entrainment to relax. Brainwave entrainment can provide the same kind of restorative effects as deep sleep. If you did not get a lot of sleep, it is a good idea to use brainwave entrainment after your meditation session in the morning. Thirty minutes of brainwave entrainment can do wonders for your energy levels. I used to have bad afternoon slumps until I tried listening to brainwave sync programs.

If you think that brainwave entrainment is something you’d like to try out, you should buy a CD. There are many music stores that have a whole section dedicated to brainwave entrainment. It is also important to remember that high quality headphones make a big difference in the effectiveness of the treatment. If you have good headphones, you will have much more drastic results. You can get a good pair of headphones for one to two hundred dollars. Even though this is a lot of money, you need to think of it as an investment. If you’re always tired, think of it as a way to be more energetic. If you have trouble focusing on one thing at a time, think of it as a way to simplify your life and get rid of the stress. A pair of good headphones will last forever and financing is almost always available.

Now that you know more about brainwave entrainment and what it can do for you, you should be able to determine whether or not it will help your situation. For many people that can’t seem to control how their brain reacts, brainwave entrainment can make a huge difference. If you want to know how brainwave entrainment works, then check out this website.

I personally attest to the effectiveness of this technology, and it has had a positive impact on my life so far. If you have experience using brainwave entrainment in your life, then share your experience!

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-Joseph Cohen (“The Swinger”)

PS: If you don’t mind reading lengthy academic papers on this technology and why it works so well, then click here.

In Meditation Techniques

Fashion Tips for Men: Accessories

June 17, 2013 — Leave a comment

To most men, being the male version of Plain Jane is enough. As long as there is a shirt on his back, some decent clean-looking pants to go with it, comfortable undies underneath that, and some shoes that could get you by for a few more years, he is okay.

Of course you think you are okay, but you might not be good enough to wow a girl.

When it comes to dating, women always love men who try to step up with their game on every possible category. Sure we know how to appreciate the effort, but we do know how to value great results. And this is especially true when it comes to looks. There are ‘manssentials‘ which are the things you NEED, and then there are accessories which you don’t need per se but can be good for you.

We don’t really need you to go out all fancy and dapper a la Rob Kardashian. But it really would not hurt if you made an effort to look great, especially when we are going out on a date.

Accessories and Men

To the Average Joe kinda’ guy, accessories are unnecessary and should be reserved to models and rappers. Most men could do away without anything other than a good ol’ classic looking watch. But there’s more to men’s accessories than just a watch!

Some popular accessories for men include:

Bracelets

Necklaces

Ear studs

Scarves

Hats and caps

Vests

Belts

Shades

Purse, Pouch, Clutch, Bag

As it is with women, the biggest challenge to the non-savvy person when it comes to fashion and accessorizing is to mix and match them. You seriously do not want to look like some guy straight out of a freak show when meeting a girl for a date.

So to make your transition into becoming a more fashionable guy smoother and easier, here are some tips:

Keep it at a minimum. SIBG covered this last week. Do not overdo it. If you’re unsure about mixing and matching your accessories, wear at least one or two pieces. Say, shades and a scarf with your trench coat? Or one piece of bracelet at a time to go with your watch?

Don’t wear contrasting leather. Do not wear your black leather watch with a brown leather belt on some blue leather shoes. You’re not gunning for the Mr Rainbow look!

Decide on what look you want to achieve. Do you want to channel your inner Marshall Mathers? Go for your white sneaks, semi-wide pants and your hoodie. A single ear stud will definitely complete the look. Going for a Ryan Gosling? By all means take out your shiny leather loafers and get all other leather goods to math plus one or two gold or silver bracelets.

If your accessories do not make you comfortable, don’t push it.

Match it with the occasion. Who wears their gold necklaces to the beach anyway? If you’re not Mike Tyson, then no – you cannot wear your gold chain necklace to the beach. Wear a buri fedora and some wood bead bracelets instead! Read this if you need more pointers on how to dress for specific occasions.

Keep your comfort in check. If your accessories do not make you comfortable, don’t push it. You’ll never enjoy the night worrying about what your date thinks about your all-football fan ensemble!

In Dating, Relationships dating, fashion, men

How to Ask Questions to Women

June 14, 2013 — Leave a comment

More often than not, when it comes to women and how to talk to them, how you said something is always more crucial than what you actually said.

In most every possible way – whether it is about a compliment, a statement, and more importantly a question – the manner by which you expressed it, the words you used and the very body language you displayed are all taken into consideration by the female creature before you.

It is highly important to know how to ask questions to women properly.

So if you’re going out on a date, or starting an online profile to meet women, or just plainly going to a singles event or a party where you expect to meet women, it is highly important to know how to ask questions to women properly. They give out really good pickup tips and advice here. You cannot ever risk being mistaken as rude, obnoxious, or outright pervert.

Here are my tips on how to ask questions to women:

Know which topics to avoid, especially if you’re talking to her for the first time. When it comes to asking questions to women, topics on her weight, her ex, and her finances are the absolute no-can-do. Should I still point out the obvious and tell you that sexually-laced questions are a no-no too?

Listen to her answers and make follow up questions based on what she said. No, it does not have to sound like you’re representing CNN at a White House press briefing. What I’m saying is, when you ask her a question, listen to her answer because that’s what you wanted to know. And ask her, subtly to elaborate more on her answer, by giving follow up questions like ‘Really!? How’d you do that!?” or “oh..what happened next?” or “that’s horrible. What did you do about it?” Any follow up question that aims to have her talk more about her answer makes you seem like the interested guy, the good listener.

Don’t jump right from one question to another. Unless you’re interrogating her for the FBI or the CIA, you don’t want to ask her one different question after another like you’re reading a list of questions mentally. You’re not just there to ask questions – you’re there to converse and that’s exactly what you should do.

Look her in the eye when asking and while she’s talking. Do that because that’s what men with good breeding and manners do.

Observe her body language. Some generally harmless questions may be sensitive topics for her, like family or work. And some girls are just too shy to tell you off, so it is best to be sensitive about how she reacts to your questions. Learn more about female body language here. Usually, when topics are off for a woman, she’d likely break eye contact, fidget with her hands, or just smile and keep quiet. The best thing to do and break the awkwardness that would likely ensue after this episode is to not press on the matter and offer to do something else – like get her a drink.

Allow her to ask you questions too. Don’t be selfish and do all the asking – she deserves to interrogate you too! But before this Q&A, be sure to read on about ways on how to be surprisingly sexy here.

In Dating body language, conversations, dating

5 (Surprising) Ways to Be Sexy

June 11, 2013 — Leave a comment

‘Sexy’ is not just in the clothes you wear nor what we see when you take off your clothes. Sexy goes beyond the thickness of your biceps or the shininess of your six-pack or the money you have in the bank. In fact, you can have David Beckham’s body and still not be sexy.

Sexy, dear gentlemen, is an attitude that you can wear day in and day out. Being sexy is being irresistible even when you’re wearing your ugliest shirt.

Here are surprising ways to make you irresistibly sexy to women everywhere:

Hygiene and good grooming. While some women may frown at the thought of sharing a moisturizing kit with her man, being well groomed is something no girl can ever frown at. Clean clothes, clean smell, clean everything – now that’s sexy. It gives us the impression that you will take care of us just as much as you take care of yourself. Okay, being OCD clean can be a different story. Go ahead and start your way to becoming sexy by cleaning your room and taking a shower twice a day.

Great smile. Ahh but of course. Who wouldn’t fall for perfect pearly whites and a smile that goes from your lips all the way to your eyes? Some men are just gifted with great smiles that can turn any ‘No’ to a high flying ‘Yes’. Practice your different smiles for different moments – sweet innocent smile for your girl’s grammy, a seductive little smirk or a naughty half smile with some lip biting on the side for her. Now that’s sexy.

Voice. You can cloak an average face with the superb-ness of a voice that can make any girl drop her panties. A well-modulated voice makes it easier how to ask girls out for dates. While to others their sexy voices are natural talents, you can always practice making your voice sound sexier. Drop your pitch a little lower, talk a little more slowly, and pair it with a stare that can melt her heart and create such a mysterious aura with just the sound of your voice. Imagine Clive Owen or Jeremy Irons.

A funny guy can take home a girl more easily than a 6-pack guy could.

Humor. A funny guy can take home a girl more easily than a 6-pack guy could and I’d bet my paycheck with you on that. Girls are drawn to humor because laughing is your body’s natural reaction to happiness, to feeling good. And it will send signals to the brain that the person who makes them laugh also makes them happy and they’d want to stick to that. Seriously, who doesn’t want to be happy? See here why laughter is good for relationships. Get on your happy funny-guy vibe and watch yourself joke your way to a woman’s heart. Okay that didn’t sound right.

Intelligence. Being sexy is more than just a pretty face or a scorching hot body. Sex can only last long enough and you’d have to have brains to hold on to a conversation and keep a girl interested. So read interesting things, watch more NatGeo, be aware of the news and feed your brain. Give your girl something else other than your body.

For other date essentials, check out my last post.

In Dating dating, men, sexy

ManSsentials: Every Guy’s Must Have’s for Every Date

June 10, 2013 — Leave a comment

My grandpa always used to say, ‘Never go to war unarmed’. And a date is one serious war for everyone, men and women alike. But while it is easy for girls to bring a whole purse-full of lipstick, eye makeup, foundation, lotion, hand crème, hand sanitizer, tissues, contact lenses cleaner, band aids, and what have you’s, it is a whole different level of challenge for men.

Most men are not comfortable about bringing their clutches for dates and they feel like they lose some of their manliness or at least being cool for bringing them on a date. Here’s the good news men: you don’t need a whole wardrobe to take with you on a date, thanks to your being lower maintenance beings than us girls. They are light and easy to carry without the need for a pouch. You may or may not find these in tips on meeting and dating women, so I’m doing you a favor now.

Here are your man essentials – ManSsentials – for your date.

A Clean Hanky – you’ll never know the value of a hanky until you or your date spills a bit of the steak gravy on our clothes. She’ll appreciate you for offering it to her and trust that she’ll never forget you for it. This is also handy when you take her to some serious tear-jerker movie date. It makes you look like the complete gentleman. Tip: spray a little of your perfume on the hanky before leaving your house. You can easily rub the perfumed area on your wrist or the back of your ear for later you feel like your scent is beginning to wear off. Also, when you offer it to her, she will remember how great you smelled like on that night. Here’s an amusing article about why you should carry a hanky.

Breath mints – whether you’re a smoker or not, you should always keep a pack of breath mints in your pocket. This is an age-old fool-proof technique used by gentlemen and kings to make their breaths crowd-ready, and especially – date ready! So pop some in before you start your date and pop some after your dinner of garlicky chicken. You not only risk getting caught in that embarrassing situation of her smelling your breath straight out of the sewers, but also get yourself ready for some smoochin’.

Wallet with both cash and cards – your cards can only be as good as the establishment that accepts them. But what about your tip? Parking fees? Late night date to the ice cream parlor or to the arcade? A little sidewalk snack that clearly does not have a card machine? Keep your card handy, but don’t forget to stash in some cash for the appropriate moments. Don’t forget to bring an ID too!

Always be one step ahead for every date and keep your pockets ready for all your needs. For everything else, stock the following in your car:

Always be one step ahead for every date and keep your pockets ready for all your needs.

An umbrella
A spare coat/jacket
An extra shirt
A Swiss knife for emergencies
Condoms if you’re into that kind of thing (but if action is slow to come for you, make sure you check the expiration date regularly)

In Dating dating, hygiene, men

How to Be Friends with Your Ex-Girlfriend

May 29, 2013 — Leave a comment

To say that “exes can be friends” is one that can spark up a debate that can be just as magnanimous as something that the Democrats and the Republican put on the table on a regular basis. Can exes really be friends?

Whether she cheated on you or you cheated on her, yes, you can be friends but should you be friends? Under what circumstances can you say you can never really let the incident go and totally forget about the thought of each other’s existence? What do friends mean? Do you hang out with each other? Or is being mutually civil pass up as being ‘friends’? They say ‘time heals all wounds’, but for how long? And under what circumstances?

Hard Work

See, there are tons and tons of things to talk about when it comes to exes being friends. And while I can never fully answer those questions for you, I can only tell you this: there certainly is a lot of work to do if you are looking towards a platonic, non-dysfunctional and more socially acceptable relationship with your past love.

Here are some ways that you, dear men, can win your exes back not as lovers but as friends:

Do not rush. This is where most men just could not quite get. Which part of ‘do not rush’ is hardest to understand? Sure, there are certain scenarios where boyfriends and girlfriends somehow realize they are not for each other and they break up today, they are friends tomorrow. But sadly, this is not the case for most people. You’d have to wait ‘til she feels she’s ready to look at you without either getting mad or crying.

Don’t expect her to be friendly. She was hurt after all.

Do not expect too much. She was hurt. She was mad. Or maybe she still is, even when she can look at you in the face and be totally civil with you. She will not welcome you with a hug or say thanks to you (except when she has fully realized how much better her life is when you guys broke up) and she may not even tell you that naughty thought in her mind that you used to know at one glance. Dude, things have changed. And remember, if there are reasons why you should be friends with your ex, there are also reasons why you shouldn’t be friends.

Respect her boundaries. And since you are not to expect anything from her, you should also be able to respect where she places herself in this so-called renewed friendship with you. If she does not want to go out with you, even for “old times’ sake”, do not easily assume that is because she still has feelings for you. She just does not like your face all that much. And I wish I was fully kidding at that.

Do not talk about feelings, new girlfriend, or the past. Out of respect, out of good humor and well wishes for a better future, and out of logic and etiquette, these things are not major and recommended topics for conversation when you’re trying to be friends with your former ladylove. And don’t think you can get away with a simple subtle joke about her dating life or the new guy in her life.

For more tips on relationships, especially if you need help on seduction, I find the SIBG resources centre very helpful. Just saying.

In Relationships love, relationships

Is She Cheating on You? Here’s How to Know for Sure

May 23, 2013 — Leave a comment

It’s funny how so much can happen in 24 hours! I received a couple of emails in connection with my post about cheating yesterday. There was one particular mail, a hate mail hahaha, that said I should man up and write about women who cheat. It’s not all about men cheating. Well, he has a point. So here you go brotha! Chill.

So how do you find out if your girlfriend is cheating on you? Are there any signs you can watch out for? It’s fairly easy, to be honest. All you have to do is pay more attention to the little details. Basically, if your girlfriend is cheating on you, she will try to cover her tracks as well as possible. So, if your girlfriend seems a bit sneaky, then you can be sure that something is up.

Aside from that, if your girlfriend seems to be making noticeable differences in her daily habits, then she is probably cheating on you. In this case, things that she used to do on a regular basis might change out of nowhere.

But don’t worry guys, your bruised ego will suffer only slightly. I stumbled upon this article on dating which should help you cope easily. Lol

The Main Signs of Cheating

Girls who cheat will usually want to meet their secret lovers as many times as they can, so they end up completely disregarding any previous engagements that they might have planned.

Freaking out even at the slightest matter is one sign you should watch out for.

If your girl freaks out over the most basic of questions, then you should become suspicious, too. In fact, you should be suspicious of anybody who refuses to answer basic questions, in general. Of course, there might be a reason behind the mystery, such as a surprise party. However, if your girl normally never does things like that, then you should be really wary. Be suspicious if she only answers your questions after repeating them or if she pauses before answering you, as well. This might mean that she is trying to come up with a believable excuse in her head. Generally speaking, when girls start to get defensive or hesitate to answer a basic question posed by their significant others, it indicates that they have something to hide.

Another time when you should be on your guard is if your girl suddenly starts talking about an old colleague or acquaintance, but doesn’t seem to share any specific details about them or is purposely vague about the situation, in general. This would hold especially true if she is extra evasive and tries her best to keep the friendship under wraps and refuses to introduce you.

If you usually have no problem communicating with your girl, but every little sentiment that you express seems to set her off and make her lash out recently, then you should be on your guard, as well. When your girl starts to pick fights over every little inconsequential thing, alarms should go off in your head right away.

Another common thing that girls tend to do when they’re cheating is to nag a lot. Nagging seems to help them ease their guilt. So, if your girl habitually starts to pinpoint all of your flaws, you might want to try and figure out what’s up.

Believe it or not, shopping might be a telltale sign of cheating, too. If your girl vanishes for hours on end, just to come back with a ton of shopping bags, she might not have been shopping at all; she might have just been busy with somebody else. Think about it.
Shopping, yes, shopping COULD BE a sign of cheating.

Basically, the signs are the same. Although women, in my humble opinion, are less likely to hide their true emotions. It makes it easier for men that way. But remember guys, there are reasons why women cheat. Try to find out whether you had something to do with it.

In Dating, Relationships, Swing Method cheating, dating, relationships, women

Why You Shouldn’t Cheat

May 22, 2013 — Leave a comment

Cheating is bad.

No matter the consequences, cheating is bad. Oh, and practically useless. This is a clearly known fact no matter how often it is disregarded. I don’t even see the purpose of me writing this. I don’t understand this massive percent of the male populace that could not stop themselves from cheating.

Whether cheating is genetic or not is not an excuse. Seriously, guys, it does not at all make you better men – if at all, it makes you worse. And oh, it can only enlarge your ego, not your “package”.

Whether cheating is genetic is not an excuse to practice it.

And while I find it unnecessary to give this explanation, it is unfortunate that some men’s common sense have totally been taken over by their common urges. So here’s the simplest, most honest way to tell you the reasons why you should not EVER cheat:

The grass isn’t always greener on the other side. No one is perfect – and when your perspective is flawed right from the start, no woman will ever be good enough for you. Man, there will always be someone better than your girlfriend; it’s just a matter of finding who’s right for you and cheating is never the way to find out.

One’s lonely, two’s a party and three’s a crowd. If you are having problems with your current flame, will adding another person be of any help? Yes, exactly as I thought: NOTHING. And if you’re happy with your relationship, what could be the most logical reason to add another person? Too much love to give? Or too much lust it’s greed?

Flight or fight. Man’s instinct tells him that there are two ways to deal with a problem; it’s called the flight or fight response. If you’re having problems with your relationship, your instinct tells you to either take flight: leave the relationship (nicely and decently, I hope) or fight: try to fix the problem. Now tell me honey, which part of this says you take in another person?

Cowardice. Cheating is the ultimate sign of cowardice. You are too chickened out at the thought of losing the “comfort zone” you’ve built with your current girl, while looking to enjoy the comfort of another one. And that is at the expense of someone else’s emotion. How selfish and sissy can you be for a man?

STD. the best and most fool-proof way to avoid getting STD’s is either complete abstinence. Next to it is sticking to just one sex partner. Does this need any more explaining? The more you cheat, the more you are exposing yourself to contracting these kinds of diseases.

Loneliness. When your girl gets tired of your philandering ways, she’ll leave you. Sure, you’d be able to hook up with someone, I’ve read techniques on how to do it easily (and honestly one of my favorite blogs is about it). But every other girlfriend you have or you would have would leave you eventually. A woman can only trust and forgive so much so when your good girl is done with you, and all your flings are tired of you, prepare yourself to go home to an empty loveseat.

Cheating is a gamble which almost always puts you in the losing end.

You’re probably thinking that I’m crazy, writing about stuff about seduction and now I’m telling you not to cheat. Hey, I NEVER said they’re one and the same! Really, it does not take a pure genius to know and understand that cheating is never the answer. If you’re unhappy, leave. Face it like the man you supposedly are and resolve it the same way.

In Uncategorized cheating, dating, relationships

Why SwingStatus Method Is “Slow” – A Surefire Guide To Seduction

May 3, 2013 — Leave a comment

Anything new can be extremely exciting. New shoes, new ride, new girl – they can make you giddy and want to take things on a fast pace. Well, everything we have today is fast-paced. You can do ten things at the same time, and get them done in no time too! We at SwingStatus.com understands this…. and that’s why the SwingStatus Method is deliberately slow.

Relationships have not been spared from this ‘instant’ revolution in our generation. Strangers become couples after a few drinks and calls, and other things that were not given the chance to take on its own time. This is especially true when one dates a shy girl.

lovely-woman You could lecture me all you want about ‘YOLO’ and how to seize the chance when it gets to you, but really, some things may just benefit better if it gets to take its own time, at its own pace, to bloom into its full potential.

If you are starting out a relationship with a girl and you really, really want to get it on, here are some notes on the benefits of taking things slow. You might surprise yourself by agreeing to most if not all of them…

SwingStatus Guide To Slow Seduction

Taking things slow helps you decide on what you truly want with the other person. Before jumping the gun and becoming a couple, go on a few more dates – without sex or physical intimacy – and actually get to know the person. Sex complicates things and gives that false sense of attachment. Give yourself time to know how well you and the other person are going to be like together. Use fractionation hypnosis to get to know her better.
Give yourself time to measure your level of commitment (and willingness to commit). Give yourself and the girl some justice. Maybe you get too excited but you’re not in it for the long haul. Finding this out on a few dates will save you the shame and burden of breaking up later.
You are giving yourself and the other person the chance to know each other better, more deeply. Maybe she has quirks that you are not ready and willing to live with? Maybe you are too impatient for her taste? Maybe you don’t agree on certain things and it would be easier to give yourself and the girl room to exit before you both hurt each other emotionally over incompatibility. MSN has got a very useful love compatibility tool which can be found here.
It lessens the pressure for both of you. So you thought you guys were in love. No, you didn’t talk about marriage and it is far from what you guys are planning in the foreseeable future. You moved in together. You get her pregnant. What do you do? If you took things slowly, this would not have happened. This isn’t some lecture on safe sex; it’s about timing things when it is right, and when you consider the consequences of your actions. (Or at least acknowledge the possibility of those consequences given your current or proposed situation).

Relationships, the happy ones, are always exciting in the beginning. But as with anything in the natural world, try not to rush things. Sure you only live once, but at least live one that’s worth it, not ones that are full of regrets because ‘you took every chance’. Give relationships and the people in it the chance to grow and blossom into the beautiful thing it’s supposed to be. If you take things too fast you might just lose her; if that’s the case then you’d better learn techniques on how to get an ex back – it’s gonna be messy.

In our next blog post, we will investigate more on love compatibility and how to find your true soul mate.

In Swing Method

Studyin’ and Swingin’

May 1, 2013 — Leave a comment

Apologies for not being able to write and focus on this blog.

I know a lot of you have been waiting for more updates and more articles on meditation, seduction, and dating techniques from me– sorry for not writing the soonest. I promise to keep you updated with fresh and updated information regarding the art of seduction and swinging as days go by. Right now I’m trying to finish my second to the last semester of grad school, so please understand.

Hey, I may be a swinger but this swinger’s got education!!

For the meantime, please send me emails if you have questions or stories to tell. Here’s something to keep you occupied– it’s my previous article on seduction methods that you might need to learn. You can also read my article on pickup techniques for further reading.

Looking forward to hear from you. Back in a few–

Joe C.
joseph@swingstatus.com

In Uncategorized

How To Date A Shy Girl – A Real Life Application of The Swing Method Of Seduction

January 14, 2013 — Leave a comment

Today I am going to share with you a real life application of the Swing Method.

People have different kinds of personalities and we also need to deal with them differently while considering our own personality as well. When it comes to dating, the same principle applies.

When you are dating a shy girl, go for activities that will suit her – like meditation!

Guys should master this art of dating if they want to conquer the heart of a woman that they love. Ironically of all the types of personalities, it is the shy type that is often the most difficult kind to deal with, especially in dating. However, once a guy learns how to deal with a shy type of girl in dating, it would then be easier to successfully break her from the shell and get to know her more. I’ve already covered this at length previously here.

Dating A Shy Girl – What You Need To Know

If you are a lover boy who is desperately trying to date and please a shy woman, then you are on the right place. Read on and discover how shy girls think, what they like, and how they should be dealt with. Discover their world and become a total master psyche of this kind of personality.

First of all, you have to know the reason why the girl is shy as well as the characteristic of her shyness. Is she only shy when she’s around you? Is she shy to most guys and can easily open up when she’s with girls? Or is she shy to people that she just newly met and would gradually open up when she gets to be more acquainted? It can be very challenging to observe the nature of her shyness. The more mysterious she is, the more challenging it can be on your part.

Secondly, bear in mind that this type of girls might probably be unwilling to enter relationships unless they are given an unusually strong guarantee of uncritical acceptance. Consequently, they often have no close friends or confidants. The easiest way to provide an uncritical acceptance is to express an accepting attitude toward the girl’s fears, especially the fear of rejection. You might also want to accept the fact that your date might not be willing to have a relationship with you. In that case, just take it slow and start as a good friend while you get to know her more. This will assure her that your intentions are good and that you don’t intend to hurt her.

Advantages of Dating Someone Shy

The good thing about most shy girls is that they are not as demanding, irritable, or unpredictable as the other types of girls. They express their emotion in an obvious way and they can be simply attractive in that way so express to her how attracted you are with her personality. When you go out together, make her feel that you are very proud to be with her. This will help stow away her shyness especially when in public.

To learn about some advanced techniques on how to do this and specifically on how to meet women, go to http://fractionationseduction.net/how-to-meet-women/

Ask her what she likes or wants and don’t just assume things on your own. For example, if you want to hold her hands, don’t be so aggressive in doing it or she might push you away. Instead, ask her if she’s comfortable with you holding her hands or touching her shoulders as a gesture of being a gentleman. However, sometimes, you might not need a verbal agreement. You will just know it by the way she reacts. As previously mentioned, shy types usually express in an obvious way, just don’t be aggressive. To maintain posture, try brainwave entrainment programs as outlined here.

When you finally master this personality, you can formulate strategies to date her in a way that makes you comfortable with each other’s company. In my next blog post, I am going to share with you what these strategies are.

God bless,

Joseph