Howdy readers. Joseph Cohen here trying to make sense of dating patterns in your 20s and 30s.
When it comes to dating, your 20s and your 30s make up for the most significant formative years. These two decades are the time of trying to experience everything and making life-changing decisions for later in your life.
But what really differs when you’re dating in your 20s and in your 30s? Whether you’re in your 30s and are trying to look back at the past decade, or you are in your 20s and are trying to get a heads up on what to expect in the coming ten years of your dating life, here’s a comparative look at the difference between dating in your 20s and dating in your 30s.
Dating in Your 20s
In your 20s, you try to explore everything related to adulthood. You are getting your first taste of being a grown up and you try to socialize as best and as much as you can. Physically, you tend to accessorize more. Your dating attempts are more careless, experimental, and spontaneous at times. You try to date and bed every girl you meet, and your ego matters more than anything else. And you make the most out of being independent and in full control of your life.
When you’re dating in your 20s, your focus is on excitement and experimentation in relationships. This is the age when you’re most attractive to the so-called cougars too. At this age, the rule on dating is to have fun, fun, fun. And so you look for girls and dates for exactly that same reason.
These are the formative years of your dating and adult life and this is when you find the experiences and the people that make you decide to settle down in marriage or to keep having fun as a single man.
Dating in Your 30s
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Around this time in your life, you find yourself slowly losing appetite for wild dates. You realize that going out on clubs every single night to meet girls is not good for your love life and your gall bladder. And you realize that the crowd is becoming younger – so young you don’t understand their language anymore. You ideally would be more focused on your career path in your 30s.
When it comes to meeting women, you may be less appealing to cougars but the younger ladies may seem too young for you that you find it hard to meet halfway. More often than not, women your age are either married, divorced or single with children. This may be a challenge and online dating may be a more lucrative option.
Your attitudes towards women and dating may also have changed at this point, thanks to peer pressure from friends who are getting married and having kids.
Life changes us. We become who we are from everything we experience and everyone we meet. Your dating life in your 20s may not exactly tell how the rest of your dating life will end up. Whatever your age, here are universal tips on being a good flirt with women. Enjoy every experience though; you’re only in your 20s ad 30s for so long! Good luck!
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